Archive for December, 2015

SERMON: Let’s Talk Politics: Obama, Trump … and Asara b’Tevet

December 21, 2015 Leave a comment

Every once in a while I mention in my sermons that I don’t like to discuss politics from the pulpit and many of you just sit there and giggle! Well, today I am going to talk politics from the pulpit, and what I have to say is nothing to laugh about. But in order for me, as a rabbi, to talk politics I first must disguise it by a D’var Torah regarding the Fast of Asara b’Tevet.

This Tuesday is a sad day in the Jewish calendar. It is the 10th day of Tevet and I think it is fair to say that most Jews don’t know – or don’t care – about that day. Really, how many of you who come to shul every Shabbat know what the Fast of Asara b’Tevet commemorates? Yet our tradition considers it a significant day. There were other fast days that our people used to commemorate which over the centuries were removed from the calendar. Indeed, there used to be fasts on the 8th and 9th of Tevet as well. We no longer observe them. After all, if we fasted every day that had a tragic event took place for the Jews, we would never have to go on a diet! But our rabbis kept the fast of the 10th day of Tevet, and in fact considered it so important that whereas other fast days, besides Yom Kippur, which come out on Shabbos are delayed. If Asara b’Tevet could fall on Shabbos, it would not be delayed. READ MORE


SERMON: Why Do They Hate Us?

December 11, 2015 Leave a comment

Every Shabbat here at Beth Tfiloh is special, but this Shabbat of the Weiner Tournament
is one of the highlights of our year as we welcome student athletes from some of the finest Jewish day high schools in America and Canada, and this year from Israel as well! Receiving the kind of education they are getting makes them the true future of our people. All of our children are special, but these are very special. And that is why it was so painful for all of us to recently lose one of them.

Ezra Schwartz was a graduate of the Maimondes High School in Boston where he had
our own Rabbi Soskil and Nina Cusner as teachers. Upon graduation he did what many students of day schools and Yeshivot do … he decided to spend his “gap year” before college by going to Israel for a program of study and volunteering. It was while serving as a volunteer, bringing food to soldiers in Judea, that a Palestinian gunman opened fire, killing Ezra. Unfortunately, tragically, incidents like this have become part of the day-to-day life in Israel. But this time was different … the killing of Ezra struck home. It could have been any one of the children attending the Weiner Tournament. Many – if not most – have already been to Israel. Our Beth Tfiloh seniors are taken to Israel every year. And then there is that “gap year” when many of the young adults here today have plans of spending the year in Israel like a cousin of our Bar Mitzvah who is not here today. He is in Israel where, after his gap year of study, he is now starting
paratrooper training.

I hope that all of you who intended to go will still decide to go. But that is not for me to
say. One of my sons was in Israel during the Gulf War when Saddam Hussein was firing scud missiles into Israel. We decided to allow him to stay, but I can only make decisions regarding my children … your parents will have to make a decision regarding you. You may not like their decision and I have reason to believe that it won’t be the first time that you won’t like their decision! But that’s okay. As my mother used to say to me, and I say to you: “Someday you’ll understand … someday you’ll have children and you’ll understand …;” you’ll understand some of the decisions your parents made, decisions not made out of stupidity but out of love. READ MORE

SERMON: Syrian Refugees: A Matter of “Moral Licensing?”

December 1, 2015 Leave a comment

This week I couldn’t help but think about the words uttered by the Godfather, Don Corleone, to the gangster, Virgil Sollozzo, when he says to him: “It don’t make any difference to me what a man does for a living you understand, but your business is a little dangerous.” It is shortly thereafter that Sollozzo gets gunned down by Michael Corleone in the famous restaurant scene. I must tell you that I never considered my business dangerous. Yet recently there was something in the news that, if true, could put me out of business, permanently! Strangely enough, it was a study found in the journal Current Biology.

The authors of the study, led by a scholar at the University of Chicago, involved nearly 1,200 children from Canada, China, Jordan, Turkey, South Africa and the United States. Their research discovered that children raised in religious homes were significantly less likely to share and demonstrate altruism than those coming from the homes of atheists or non-religious families. The study went against everything that every religious leader has preached; the belief that being religious helped make someone more empathetic and morally sensitive. In the words of the researchers: “Overall, our findings cast light on the cultural input of religion on pro-social behavior and contradicts the common sense and popular assumption that children from religious households are more altruistic and kind toward others.”

That is an absolutely mind-boggling statement, seemingly going against what every religion, and certainly our religion, preaches. Rav, the codifier of the Talmud tells us: “You think it really matters to God how an animal is slaughtered. Know that the purpose of the mitzvot is l’tsaref et habriyot – to refine man, to make man a better person.” This study seems to say that it doesn’t work! Being religious doesn’t mean being better. And if that’s true, that is not good for my business! READ MORE